como amar uma mulher...

"To really love a woman,
To understand her,
You've got to know her deep inside...
Hear every thought,
See every dream,
And give her wings when she wants to fly.
Then when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms ...
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman,
Let her hold you,
Till you know how she needs to be touched.
You've got to breathe her, really taste her,
Till you can feel her in your blood.
And when you see your unborn children in her eyes ...
You know you really love a woman.

When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that you will always be together.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

You've got to give her some faith,
Hold her tight, a little tenderness.
You've got to treat her right.
She will be there for you taking good care of you ...
You really gotta love your woman.

And when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms,
You know you really love a woman.

When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's really wanted.
When you love a woman,
You tell her that she's the one.
She needs somebody, to tell her that it's gonna last forever.
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?
So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?

So tell me have you ever really ... really, really ever loved a woman?"

( Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman? - Bryan Adams )

Podemos duvidar de muita coisa na nossa vida, mas sabemos o momento a partir do qual alguém vive para nós, sabes a exacta fracção de segundo em que começamos a ser realmente amadas.
Tu sabes que já passámos muitas provas, bem duras, para nos mantermos sempre unidos, e sabes também como o nosso passado me magoa de quando em quando...algo que só o tempo levará.
Mas, nada importa quando me fazes compreender como se ama uma mulher. Continua a desvendar os problemas nos meus olhos, permanece eternamente amparado nos meus braços, diz-me o quanto me queres, que eu sou "a tal", que vai ser para sempre...afinal só tu consegues ver "your unborn children in (my) eyes".


(o meu tributo ao Oceano Pacífico que se superou esta noite)